9 February 2024                 A Candle in the Window                      Peter Millar

Words to encourage us in these times.                This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

There is dignity here – we will exalt it.

There is courage here – we will support it.

There is humanity here – we will enjoy it.

There is a universe in every child – we will share it.

There is a voice calling through the chaos of our times:

There is a spirit moving across the water of the world:

There is movement. A light. A promise of hope.                   Philip Andrews

My heart is moved by all I cannot save:

So much has been destroyed.

I have to cast my lot with those who,

age after age, perversely,

with no extraordinary power,

reconstitute the world.

Adrienne Rich

A proper sense of self in a universe of wonders.

Joan Chittister from: The Rule of Benedict: insights for the ages.

Do not go where your path may lead.

Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.

Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882)

There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud

was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

Anaïs Nin (1903-1977) French-born American diarist, essayist, novelist, and writer of short stories.

Do not ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive and go to that because the world needs people who come alive.

Gil Bailie is the founder and president of The Cornerstone Forum, and the author, most recently, of God’s Gamble: The Gravitational Power of Crucified Love.

God is here. It is we who have gone out for a walk.   Meister Eckhart (1260-1327)

One day you finally knew what you had to do, and began.   Mary Oliver


Praying:

One of my favourite hymns has in it this verse:

There have been times when I turned from his presence

and I’ve walked other paths, other ways.

But I have called on his name in the dark of my shame,

and his mercy was gentle as silence.

The theologian Karl Barth said that in our praying God is really inviting us to live with him. That view of prayer is expressed in these lines of the hymn.  The individual is recognising the need for God’s guidance and presence, and calls out, in faith, that their life will be brought back into a clearer path. And as they seek God’s mercy, that ‘still small voice’ announces itself, and divine assurance enfolds them. The prayer may have been only a couple of words or a waiting in silence: what matters is that inner journey of ‘returning home’ to the one who is always holding open the door of life and truth to our true humanity.

Yet often we see ‘prayer’ – in whatever form it takes – as something we do. We keep wondering if we have ‘got it right’—in terms of our thoughts or faltering words. And because we often reach the conclusion that we don’t have it right we give up on praying all together.

And there is another piece to this. Some people believe that prayer should be left to the clerics – after all, it’s their job! Yet if prayer does not belong right at the heart of ordinary, daily living, where does it live?

For centuries some women and men who have made prayer their total way of life have reminded us that God first comes to us – long before there was even the slightest thought of praying in our own minds.

Julian of Norwich (1342-c. 1416), who’s famous book “The Revelations of Divine Love” (available as an eBook online), wrote: “Never forget that we have all been loved by God from before the very beginning”. That’s amazing, and it puts our anxieties of what we should think and say in our prayers into perspective. The Creator is there before us, and, as St. Paul says, even when we have no idea what to say, the spirit prays on our behalf. The writer Sheila Cassidy puts it: “When people ask me what I pray for, this is how I sometimes reply: I pray because God is. I sit before him open like an empty bowl, like a flower, like a wound. I give him my joy, my confusion, my boredom, my pain – just lay it there on the floor for him to process how he wishes and when he is ready”. Again and again I come back to that simple phrase “let go and let God”. It may be very basic in its language but it contains a profound truth. As the late Father Jock Dalrymple said: “Praying leads us straight into the heart of that mystery where we discover not only our true selves, but also our neighbour and God’s creation in all of its goodness and glory”.

These are words from my book “Waymarks” (ISBN: 978-1-85311-336-9), Peter.